SEASONAL.RELATIONSHIP.

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Monday, February 19, 2007

Seasonal Relationships.

A friend of mine blogged about this and totally disagreed, but I couldn't find myself agreeing with her..

"A season....

When people come into your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But only for a season. In the same way that leaves must fall from the trees, or the moon becomes full and then disappears, your seasonal relationships will end at divinely appointed time. When that time comes, there is nothing you can say or do to make it work. there is one you can blame. You cannor fix it. You cannot explain it. The harder you clutch, the worse it will feel. When the end of a season comes in a loving relationship, the only thing for you to do is let go."


The reason why I can't put myself in her shoes is because I have had my share of seasonal relationships, and it's not because I was aware that it was what I was heading into. It was because it was just how it went. It ended, or it just never is the same and becomes a very shallow relationship.

During those relationships, I've shared a lot of myself, grown a alot and also learned.
But it's not only during. I must say that sometimes.. I have learned more AFTER. It has taught me how the real world functions, how people can be, how material things doesn't really matter, and how I can become a better person. It has given me true friends, selfasteem, strength and motivation.

I'm not saying that I just ran from the first obstacle that came during a rocky road in a relationship and said: "oh no, okay, this is over now".
I've done the begging, the being the whipped little puppy, the conversations, the analyzing, the crying, the being a dramaqueen.. I mean.. I have done my share of shit to try making the relationship better.

This also doesn't mean that I stop caring. I can't really say that I don't give a shit anymore. They've played a huge part of my life. I'm only greatful to them. I can't say that I would be where I am today hadn't been for them.
If you truly loved somebody, that love won't go away when the relationship ends. It might not just be as strong or just not in the same way.
The word "LOVE" is a used and abused word. A word not many know the true meaning of, because TRUE love is unconditional.
So PLEASE PEOPLE.. think twice before you say those three little words.

People come and go. But you also have to let go of the people that's gone and not live in the pain, the tears.. the past. You will never learn and grow, and you wouldn't have anything to share and pass on to others.

The good memories I cherish, and the bad times reminds me of how far I've come and empowers me..

Written by: hella halo halo -eily.